This is an excerpt from my private correspondence with a dear friend who was lamenting over men in general and one man in particular and jokingly said, “Too bad I don’t like vagina.”
I will have you know, young lady, that there is a lot more to a woman than her pussy. Oftentimes I have explored her for hours before I even get that far. Sometimes, I have never even bothered getting that far; just making out for hours has been sufficiently emotionally satisfying. Sometimes, leaving her with both of us burning like that, emotionally satisfied but physically starving, is incredibly delicious.
Don’t get me wrong; I love that part of her body and it is magical to me, but after imprinting on her face and playing with her hair and kissing her and tasting her makeup and biting her neck and licking her collarbones and kissing her and grasping her breasts and pinching her nipples and kissing her while she gasps and choking her and kissing her while choking her and pushing your fingers into her mouth and painting her face with those wet fingers and kissing her, a few hours will have flown away just like that.
And then you start undressing her.
Or not. I am beginning to realize the sensuality of reaching underneath her clothes and feeling her without necessarily seeing my hand and exactly where it is. It’s almost naughty in a way. And it seems to heighten my sense of touch.
Just pulling away enough of her clothes to expose what I want from her…
And that is only about her body. Imagine when you take the time to just look into her eyes and trace her lips with your fingertip and you cup her face in both your hands and you make to kiss her and you stop just before touching her lips with yours and just breathe in her breath until she starts making those involuntary little whimpering noises that she is completely unaware of that she makes.
Imagine when you reach her heart and she opens up to you and blossoms like a flower before your very eyes.
I love pussy. It is magical to me how it gets warm and wet and welcoming and inviting and how her body is designed to accept me inside it. But still, that is only a tiny little fraction of the whole magnificent creature in your arms.
Can you tell that I’m a gynephile? Grins.


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Oh those little involuntary noises we make are delicious! Sometimes I can hear them, feel them when caught up in the exchange and they are part of the soundtrack. If I become aware that they come from me, then I want to silence myself so I try to keep them as background noise.
Your words beautifully illustrate the dance of lovemaking.