Q: How Do You Like To Be Touched? Are Your Nipples Sensitive?

A: I usu­ally do not have the patience to be touched per se. I am very affec­tion­ate and touchy-​​feely, but I pri­mar­ily seem to think in terms of doing unto rather than being done unto.

I always thought that it’s the con­trol freak in me but a wise young lady pointed out to me that maybe it’s because I don’t like to be pas­sive in receiv­ing and I think she may have a point. Smart lit­tle fox, that one.

From what I have been given to under­stand, my nip­ples are nowhere near as sen­si­tive as a woman’s. But then, I have known female nip­ples that were insen­si­tive to any kind of plea­sure. My nip­ples are sen­si­tive but not really in a good way. I once got a gen­tle love-​​bite on one with­out warn­ing and I jumped straight up. She never tried any­thing on my nip­ples again. He he.

Teas­ing nip­ples and blow­ing in ears and run­ning a feather across skin may be all well and good, but there are ways a woman can touch a man that is noth­ing like he can do to her, using her fem­i­nin­ity and her body to do so. Find ways to con­trast your body against his, how much smaller your hands are to his, how much softer your skin is to his.

Also, remem­ber that he is a man and that he thinks and reacts dif­fer­ently from you. His skin is not as sen­si­tive as yours and he may be slightly more single-​​mindedly wired for the act of pen­e­tra­tion. Use that to your advantage.

Instead of run­ning a feather across his skin, use your hair; hon­estly, which do you think he likes bet­ter? If your hair is long, drag it like a cur­tain from his chest to his thighs, cross­ing his crotch. If he is flac­cid, it is an incred­i­ble feel­ing of being caressed by fem­i­nin­ity, and if he is erect he will feel like he’s pen­e­trat­ing your hair. It can be an unbe­liev­able feeling.

If his nip­ples will not give him plea­sure, graze your nip­ples across the hairs of his chest. Graze your nip­ples across his lips and rub your breasts against his shoul­ders. If it feels good to you, let him know for good­ness sakes.

If you are mov­ing down with your face level with his crotch, why not strad­dle one of his legs and let your breasts strad­dle him too? Make him feel them on both sides of his thigh, for instance, and he will real­ize that breasts are even heav­ier than they look.

If you are strad­dling him while, say, graz­ing your nip­ples against his chest hair, instead of strad­dling his hips, do so to one of his thighs and rub your pussy against it. It feels good to you and it is an amaz­ing tease to him.

You know how many women seem to have a direct con­nec­tion between their nip­ples and their clits? Well, many men have a sim­i­lar con­nec­tion between their fin­gers and their cocks. Give his fin­ger a lit­tle blowjob while lock­ing your eyes with his. Don’t just suck on it but give it the whole blowjob expe­ri­ence, includ­ing deepthroat­ing if you can. And if you are rub­bing your pussy against his thigh at the same time, you are giv­ing him one fuck­ing good expe­ri­ence. Pun intended.

And if he’s get­ting jit­tery, like he’s impa­tient to take over and just do some­thing, arrange your­self such that you give him some­thing to do. It may be as easy as get­ting him to play with your butt or even just trace your curves in gen­eral to set­tle him down for more of your min­is­tra­tions. Us guys can be a lit­tle too action ori­ented at times.