Comments on: Q: What is Your Preferred Method of Erotic Torture? http://dreamwalker.com/q-what-is-your-preferred-method-of-erotic-torture Sadistic Poet Mon, 23 Apr 2012 04:45:43 +0000 hourly 1 By: oatmeal girl http://dreamwalker.com/q-what-is-your-preferred-method-of-erotic-torture/comment-page-1#comment-370 oatmeal girl Fri, 12 Mar 2010 23:49:55 +0000 http://dreamwalker.com/?p=162#comment-370 That's a telling comment about force and response, and especially about why you prefer canes to floggers. My sadistic Master is definitely one who gets off on the response of his victim. I am not a masochistic, and it takes much less pain to elicit real suffering from meas opposed to what a pain slut would need. But sometimes he does need to hit hard. So he designed a fairly gentle flogger especially for me so he can bring it down with great force and not send me into a 3-day emotional tailspin. I haven't been here for a while and am glad to have stumbled on you again - via the amazing breath play story you posted on FetLife. o.g. That’s a telling comment about force and response, and especially about why you prefer canes to floggers. My sadistic Master is definitely one who gets off on the response of his victim. I am not a masochistic, and it takes much less pain to elicit real suffering from meas opposed to what a pain slut would need. But sometimes he does need to hit hard. So he designed a fairly gentle flogger especially for me so he can bring it down with great force and not send me into a 3-day emotional tailspin.

I haven’t been here for a while and am glad to have stumbled on you again — via the amazing breath play story you posted on FetLife.

o.g.

]]> By: sweettart http://dreamwalker.com/q-what-is-your-preferred-method-of-erotic-torture/comment-page-1#comment-355 sweettart Thu, 04 Mar 2010 10:07:23 +0000 http://dreamwalker.com/?p=162#comment-355 Noted: your critical list is mine. We have a whole dresser full of toys but, like you, it is the 'handy' ones that are most often employed. And yes, it is all about the intimacy... I understand this from a top point of view as well. I love to give massages. Not the relaxation massage for me though - I like it to have a bit more 'bite'. For example it can be deep tissue. Other times it just works through some over stressed muscles and releases 'trigger points'. Regardless, it hurts. I love, love, love doing this. For me the why is different but the same. Mine is a typical service top scenario, I want the receiver to want it. I know it hurts but it is a 'good hurt'. On the otherside is that blissed out body feeling. I get off on that. Lovely topic - inspired me to reply. A lot. :) Noted: your critical list is mine.

We have a whole dresser full of toys but, like you, it is the ‘handy’ ones that are most often employed. And yes, it is all about the intimacy…

I understand this from a top point of view as well. I love to give massages. Not the relaxation massage for me though — I like it to have a bit more ‘bite’. For example it can be deep tissue. Other times it just works through some over stressed muscles and releases ‘trigger points’. Regardless, it hurts. I love, love, love doing this. For me the why is different but the same. Mine is a typical service top scenario, I want the receiver to want it. I know it hurts but it is a ‘good hurt’. On the otherside is that blissed out body feeling. I get off on that.

Lovely topic — inspired me to reply. A lot. :)

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