Intimacy

Cut­ting off Con­tact as Pun­ish­ment Method

A fun­da­men­tal respon­si­bil­ity for us, the dom­i­nants in our rela­tion­ships, is to exer­cise judg­ment and to do The Right Thing even if it might go against our own preferences.

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Q: What is Your Pre­ferred Method of Erotic Torture?

I have been told in a lit­tle and plain­tive voice that my fin­gers are much worse than any clover clamps…

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My Eyes May Be Psy­chotic, But I’m Not

Come join me at the NCSF.

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Toys with a Pulse

When I close my eyes and fan­ta­size about her offer­ing her body and her­self as sac­ri­fice to pacify me, no tools and no toys are any­where to be seen in the dark recesses of my mind.

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We are the Lucky Ones

To me, it is not about kinky sex. That is a good side-​dish, but the main course is within our hearts and our minds.

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Drink­ing From Her

I con­sider myself fairly new to “the lifestyle,” but that does not mean that I was inno­cent when I finally arrived.

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Q: Why Are Women So Confusing?

Women are sup­posed to be confusing.

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This Sadist’s Needs

I need some­one who sur­prises me with her own strong needs and draws me closer and deeper into her own darkness.

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Q: Why Do You Enjoy See­ing Your Lover Cry?

Who has greater moti­va­tion to dive into your heart and soul and solve the puz­zle of what makes you tick but your torturer?

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You Own Him

On the pos­ses­sor possessed.

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Shy, a.k.a. Shi-​shi

If a cat can pluck on your heart­strings, a warm vibrant woman can drop a grand piano on your head.

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Why a Sadist?

When I smell the sweet­ness of the breath car­ry­ing her scream, when I drink the salti­ness of her tears, she brings my heart inside as well. She opens up and with her shiv­er­ing pain she invites me in.

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In Response to “Will You”

Wrap your heart and legs around me, for this night you are become my hearth and home.

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In Response to “Transcendance”

This is in response to Shidonae’s poem Tran­scen­dance.

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To Be the Man

To be the man that she deserves.

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What I Want

To shed my mask and allow the ele­men­tal mas­cu­line in me dive into the cool, sooth­ing pool of the ele­men­tal fem­i­nine in you. To envelop myself in the soft radi­ance of your plea­sure and pain.

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Some­times

Some­times, I sim­ply want to feel your thighs around my hips, your body open for me, invit­ing me, wel­com­ing me.

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Eyes

As you come, I twist and turn your nip­ple, I rel­ish in my inner sadist and I do every­thing I can to fuel the fiery cords of light I imag­ine I can see between your nip­ple and your clit and your heart.

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