We are the Lucky Ones

What is draw­ing me, really draw­ing me, to this… lifestyle, if you will, is that very poten­tial for hav­ing every­thing. We can have every­thing that the best of vanilla rela­tion­ships can bring, but we get an addi­tional strata of inter­ac­tion and con­nec­tion that is lack­ing in nor­mal relationships.

We are the lucky ones. No mat­ter the heartache our natures cause us in our lives, when we do find what we seek, we find some­thing that tran­scends what the peo­ple around us can achieve. We have every­thing they have and yet we have so much more.

We have a level of under­stand­ing and inti­macy that is hard to achieve by other means. We are home in a way that is uncom­mon, and per­son­ally, I would be awarded some­thing price­less by that very spe­cial sub­mis­sive woman, some­thing that nobody but her breed can afford: rad­i­cal trust.

To me, it is not about kinky sex. That is a good side-​​dish, but the main course is within our hearts and our minds.

It is about con­nect­ing, and under­stand­ing, and trust­ing, and sur­ren­der­ing, and achiev­ing con­tent­ment. It is to be under­stood and accepted beyond your wildest dreams. It is about weav­ing a bond from tiny invis­i­ble threads that is stronger and deeper and more pro­found than we dare to imagine.

It is about envelop­ing each other, and to be enveloped by each other. It is about sym­bio­sis; to feed and be fed upon, to pos­sess and to be possessed.