What, Me Tardy?

If I take too long get­ting, you know, there, chances are that I’m really enjoy­ing myself and not that I’m bored. Some guys think about taxes or other bor­ing things to pro­long their expe­ri­ence. That doesn’t work for me. For me, desen­si­ti­za­tion works best, as in tak­ing it slower in the begin­ning until I have adjusted to the plea­sure and then ratch­ing it up.

How­ever, you can get too much of a good thing too. If I like it too much, if I desen­si­tize for too long, I will not come even when I decide to do so. That can be fun all by itself, because then I can really go to town.

When I get desen­si­tized to the point that I can’t come even when try­ing, I nor­mally just enjoy the cur­rent state and make the best use of it I can. And I’ll usu­ally come like a tor­rent the next time I try.

The next time is not so much about actual time as it is “reset­ting” me men­tally. It can be as sim­ple as allow­ing the erec­tion to recede and to kiss and be snug­gly, to let me play with some nice breasts because they are a good way to make me feel warm and fuzzy inside, and when the erec­tion is back, I’m good to go for the fin­ish line.

Another funny thing; when I am a bit numb from too much sen­sa­tion and I’m try­ing to come, speed­ing up or adding even more sen­sa­tion will not work for me, but slow­ing down will. If I slow down and start pay­ing atten­tion to how good the lady feels around me rather than how good I feel inside her, I’ll also get all warm and fuzzy and that, in turn, will get me there most of the time.

There are times I just don’t feel like com­ing, so I just won’t try; I sim­ply go on until she has had enough and is begin­ning to get sore, and then I stop. The next time, I will get off like a fire hose, believe me.